By Ray Gano
This is a continuation on my series about demons, how they can affect Christians via oppression, depression, influence, tempt, etc.
In the first of this sexual demon series, I talked to the women. If you have not read this article, you can read it here…
I wrote to the women first, not to single women out but to point out that women are the weaker vessel and are more demonically influenced because they are the weaker vessel.
Today I want to address men.
What Are These Sort of Sexual Demons?
First, as far as we know there are no specific genders when it comes to demons. They are spirits without form, so naturally they do not have the physical attributes that a male or female would have.
There are two types of sexual demons that are known.
First, an Incubus is a demon that is more “male” in their desires which means that they tend to attach themselves to women.
Second, a Succubus are demons that are more “female” in their desires which means that they attach themselves to men.
As I have mentioned in past articles, Christians are not able to be possessed by demons. They can though be influenced, oppressed & depressed, and even haunted. It is this sort of sexual haunting that seems to be taking place in the world today.
I am going to be very bold here and say that this is something that does affect the church at large today. People who cannot control the urge to masturbate or watch, read, think about sex are being influenced by some sexual demon.
There are many Christians out there that are plagued with this problem, we see it in the news all the time. Just look at all the pastors that have been effected and publicly humiliated and their preaching career destroyed. In these cases, we clearly see that the demon was successful and destroy the pastor, upset the church and in many cases destroyed the marriage.
This is why I am writing this series on demons as a whole, so that when we are being attacked, we can recognize the fact and then take the proper action to resist and push back the enemy.
This is a serious topic and much of the church does not have knowledge because in many cases it isn’t even being taught.
Because of this lack of teaching, many people do not understand that they are being demonically influenced. It has become to easy to blame the day to day chaotic hustle and bustle in the world.
Another issue is that because this is not being talked about or taught in churches today, demons, angles and the spirit realm are often thought of being part of a fairy tale, not real, imaginary.
This line of thought is very dangerous and can cause great harm to those who think like this and yet are being tormented by the very demons they think are part of the fairy tale stories.
I say this because most men tend to think logically and not emotionally. It is easy for men to not believe that they are being influenced by demons and figure that it is just them or strike it up to the world’s woes and this is why it is dangerous.
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Addressing Men on This Issue
I know that this is a tough topic because of a number of reasons…
1 – Men are macho and there is that whole “machismo” thing going on. “Hey, I’m Joe Cool and the women just dig me.”
2 – Male pride as in “Hey, I can handle this, I know what I am doing and I can stop anytime.”
3 – Sex is being pushed down our throats at every turn. You can not avoid the sexy billboards on the road, 80% of the adds on TV and an even higher number when it comes to magazines. The world pushes women to dress very provocatively and many do. Sex is in our face most of the hours that we are awake and if we have a demon influencing us, then it is there when we sleep as well.
4 – With the dawn of the internet, sex behind the computer screen has risen to astronomical amounts. Access to the plethora of sex online is as easy as a few key strokes and wham bam it is there on your screen.
Because men are so visually stimulated it is easy to see why so many men have trouble in this area.
But what many do not realize is that through sexual pleasure, we open up conduits, doorways, portals for demons to influence our minds both awake and asleep, our lives and our marriages.
Do You Have Sexual Demons Influencing & Haunting You?
Do you …
Watch porn online?
Do you have a stash of porn mags in your home?
Do you frequent porn shops and those sex arcade booths that show videos?
Do you have very strong urges that pop into your mind and out of the blue to masturbate?
Do you frequent strip clubs or some of these sports bars where the waitresses have very little on in the way of clothing? Ie Hooters, Twin Peaks, etc.
Do you visit some of these online chat rooms where you and some other person (women or man) talk about hot and heavy sex while you or both of you masturbate?
Do you hire / frequent the services of prostitutes?
If you partake in any or all of these, then there is very good odds that you have fallen prey to a succubus demon and they have a strong hold on you.
Listen, because men are so visually driven any sort of voyeurism that drives you sexually means that you have a succubus attached to you, especially if you are being driven to homosexual acts or mental images.
As I have mentioned in my previous articles, demons are driven to do one thing that is steal, destroy and kill and if they can take any pleasure while doing that, they will. Their sole purpose in being a succubus is to live out their own sexual perversions by entrapping men. They then drag men down a horrible path of sexual deviancy that in turn causes shame, guilt, confusion which in turn becomes the trap.
In one moment the demon is tempting the individual to be sexually deviant and then in the next moment when the male submits, they are then condemning that male, guilting them at being a weakling and some perverted fool.
To those of you who are suffering, how often have you heard something like this?
“How can YOU be a Christian when you are there lusting and masturbating to porn? Obviously, you are not man enough for your wife. How can you call yourself a Christian when you are some sexual pervert?”
This becomes a horrible sexual roller coaster and turns into a sexual addiction. Not that sex in and of itself is addictive, but it is the endorphins that one becomes addicted to.
See, endorphins is a substance formed within the body that naturally relieve pain. They literally have a similar chemical structure to that of morphine. So the result is that they help stop pain, bring on happiness and produces a soothing happy and pleasurable mood. In other words it creates a sexual high during sexual climax.
In a Godly relationship between a man and a woman it is these endorphin experiences that actually causes and reinforces the couple’s bond and as scripture states “ become one flesh”.
But when one is involved with a demonically driven sexual relationship, then it is all about self, self pleasure and chasing after that sexual endorphin rush that a climax produces. But like any other drug, the “high” weakens and the person has to get stronger doses to achieve the same “rush.”
For the person who is chasing after the sexual high, particularly for men, that means watching a higher form of hard core movies or looking at even more explicit sexual images, getting weirder and weirder and going deeper into a deviant sex so that one can get that same sexually charged climax high.
God created sex to be good between a husband and wife and it is a beautiful thing. But Satanically driven sex is not of God and is purely selfish and ultimately will destroy. This is why we need to remember that a demon’s job is the steal, destroy and kill. They are real and if you are suffering from the symptoms that I have talked about here, then you need to face the fact that you are being haunted by a succubus demon and they will destroy your life.
Here is a hard fact… when you are involved in all forms of sexual deviation, adultery, homosexuality, bisexuality as well as an array of other hedonistic lusts and perversion, you are making yourself to look like a powerful lighthouse in the dark that will eventually attract these sexually driven demons. For your information, in many cases it isn’t just one demon, when there is a strong sexual host that demons can prey upon, then they come in droves. Just look at the man who was possessed by “Legion” because there were many demons infesting and inhabiting this single man.
What You Need To Do
First and foremost you need to repent of every sexual sin and deviant act you have done.
You must submit your life fully to Him and start living a right life in these last days.
You need to become accountable to yourself and to Christ. Learn to walk the “servant warrior” walk, doing what is right in the eyes of the Lord.
You then need to destroy all those books, videos, toys, etc that cause and help you to sin.
When you feel the urge rising up, you MUST recognize it as an attack from the enemy trying to tempt you. This is where memorizing scripture helps. I often recite Psalms 23 and have memorized it for when I am being attacked by the enemy.
1 The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.
4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.
Finally, I recommend cleansing and anointing your home in oil. I am assuming that you are married and if you are, do this together. If you are single, then you pray over your home or apartment yourself. If things continue, then you may need to get your pastor, elders and other mature Christians come to your home and pray for your home as well.
If you find that you have more sexual thoughts in the bedroom, anoint your bed and ask God’s blessings on it. If you find yourself doing sexual things in the bathroom, then anoint the bathroom and shower.
You can read how to do this in this article…
How The Demonic Gains Access To One’s Life & Home – What We Can Do About It
Finally, you need to dawn the armor of God and learn to use it daily. The spiritual battle wages minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day.
Some days we will be attacked, other days we will not. But no matter what, we need to be ready for the attack, recognize the attack and use our Spiritual Sword, God’s Word – The Bible to fight back these attacks.
James 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
That is how we fight and continue to fight. We must resist the devil and not give him a foothold on our lives.
If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me.
I hope that this article has helped someone out there.
The enemy has the high ground, we have got to start fighting back and pushing back the enemy.