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By Ray Gano
The following article is going to be graphic in its contents, so please be warned that I am going to addressing issues that are very adult in nature.
Since the 1980’s our nation has been suffering an ever downward sexual spiral. With the ability to have VHS, DVDs and now video on demand via the internet we have immersed our nation in sex, but not only that, hard core sex.
As you know we have been out of the country now for over 4 years and upon returning one of the biggest things that I have noticed is there are more “adult stores” in main stream shopping malls. In fact, I was blown away to see a “Adam & Eve” store in an outside shopping mall next to other well respected stores. This was not a small store either, but about the size of a regular apparel store or small sporting good store.
Just driving down highway 6 here in the Houston area there are a number of these sort of stores all over.
This tells me one thing. The demand is high enough not only support this type of store, but competition is high enough that it is profitable for multiple stores to serve a rather small area. Just in this area I have counted about 6+ adult stores in maybe a 7 – 10-mile radius.
If the demand was not there, then there would not be many of these places. But what is amazing is that they are in shopping centers and malls. This means that they are no longer on the back streets and more Americans see this sort of store as “normal.”
Another thing that I have noticed is that you see more women frequenting this sort of stores. In fact, it looked like the Adam & Eve store catered more to women than men based on their window displays.
It seems that no matter where one turns in America these days, there is some sort of sexual message being portrayed and or promoted.
Why is this?
To be very honest, anything that drives a Christian individual to this is not from the individual alone. That individual is being influenced by a demon.
Now, that is not to say that the individual is not responsible, somehow they have opened up a door in their lives and allowed the spirit to have access to them. In an sense they have invited that spirit in knowingly or unknowingly.
See, we as Christians are free from the sins of the flesh, but like it or not, the flesh is strong and when you feed the flesh it becomes even stronger.
But in today’s world there is a severe obsession with sex and I truly believe that this attitude is demonically influenced via the Incubus and Succubus demons.
What Are These Sort of Demons?
Incubus is a demon that is more “male” in their desires which means that they tend to attach themselves to women.
Succubus are demons that are more “female” in their desires which means that they attach themselves to men.
Now as I have mentioned in past articles, Christians are not able to be possessed by demons. They can though be influenced, oppressed & depressed, and even haunted.
I am going to be very bold here and this is something that does affect the church at large today. People who cannot control the urge to masturbate or watch, read, think about pornography are being influenced by some sexual demon.
There are many Christians out there that are plagued with this problem, we see it in the news all the time. Even some pastors have been effected by these issues.
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Addressing Women on This Issue
In the first of this sexual demon series, I want to talk to the women first. So please know that I am not singling women out. What we need to remember is that women are the weaker vessel and are more demonically influenced because they are the weaker vessel.
Another issue that I want to point out is that women are being targeted for the demonic sexual attack. A great example is the fact that in sex stores, female sex toys are prolific. If you go to some of these online stores you will notice that there are more “toys” geared towards being used for women than they are geared to being used for men. This is not a small business and the sex toy business earns over $15 billion a year.
Traditionally it is men who are thought of in the western world as the sexual deviants and all, but when you look at what is being sold out there for sexual pleasure, a good 80% of sex toys and such are geared towards women more so than that of men.
FACT – When we imagine having sex in our minds and fantasizing mentally via masturbation, we are opening doors where were can actually summoning a sexual spirit help us manifest this thing we are imagining.
This is especially dangerous with women because women are more emotional and mentally stimulated. It is a fact that some woman can achieve an orgasm from thought alone.
Look at all the romance books that so many women are hooked on. The book 50 Shades of Grey have led so many women astray and many now have vivid sexual thoughts which have led many down this path.
It is these sort of thoughts and actions that do open the doors and sexual spirits become attracted to that person.
Once a demon / spirit is attracted to you there is a chance that it will then attach it self to your life and “haunt” you sexually.
Have You Experienced Some or All of The Following?
Do you have sexual thoughts out of the blue?
Are you drawn to pornography via reading books and articles? Most women experience pornography in the written form where men are more drawn to visual pornography. The reason is that women are more mentally driven where men are mostly visually driven.
Even if you are married, do you often fantasize or have sexual thoughts about men in your past or possibly some man you saw or know? Yes, you are not going to act on it in most cases but what we need to remember is that demons seek to steal and destroy, that means attacking your marriage and marriage bed.
If you are single, do you find yourself going from boyfriend to boyfriend and giving that person your body and in a month or so you are on to the next boyfriend? So you find that the sex just isn’t any good anymore and so therefore you must be “falling out of love” with this person? You jump to the next boyfriend and the sex is intense and yet it you keep following that same path. Finally, do you find fantasizing about these men and masturbating to be more fulfilling that the act of sex itself with these men?
Are you driven to masturbate even when you really do not want to? Because of this are you being hit with such a strong urge to masturbate so that you can relieve yourself, and you must have an orgasm just to give yourself some temporary relief?
Have you noticed that many of your orgasms are super intense when you are fantasizing about things you may have read, seen or from men in the past / dream men?
Do you use sexual “toys” to help create an even more intense orgasm?
If you can answer yes to several or more of these questions, there is a chance that you have opened yourself up to the sexual demons and that possibly one has attached itself to you.
When you open yourself up like this, you are giving these demons access to your life. In turn these demons will cause guilt, shame and even prevent you from having a pure and holy sexual relationship with your husband or soon to be husband.
When a demon has attached itself to you (still speaking to women here) they do not want you to have any solid relationships with any other man. NOW, here is the interesting fact, many demons seek and drive women to have sexual relations with other women. Thus, the rise of lesbian relationships going on today.
These Incubus demons will do everything they can to drive all the good and decent men from your life. They will cause you to have huge amounts of guilt and shame. They tell you in one moment how sexy and desirable you are and then when you are driven to masturbate they then tell you how horrible you are. It is this sort of sexual roller coaster you become trapped in.
Here is a question, do you literally have sex dreams where you have orgasms? Odds are this dream person you are having sex with in your dreams is an Incubus, a sexually driven demon.
Having a sexual demon attached to you is one of the hardest things to deal with.
You are driven by the sexual experience. It literally is a drug. When you have an orgasm, you are being shot up with endorphins, a hormone that makes you feel really good, happy, satisfied, ect. These experiences become habit forming and thus you move from maybe using your fingers to stimulate yourself to toys and then extreme toys. In other words, you are chasing the endorphin high and this is demonically influenced.
You literally have to stop the sexual habit and stop chasing after that sexual high. But it is the demon that influences you and has a strong power over you because you have opened yourself up to this spirit. They have the ability to bombard your mind with sexual thoughts. If you have really opened yourself up, they literally have to ability to stimulate you physically as well.
This becomes a very powerful influence and the individual becomes trapped in this sin and becomes a a sexual slave to the demon.
How do you break this?
You need to have a stronger influence in your life, and that is Jesus Christ. He is the one that can push these demons off you, free you and keep you safe from these demonic attacks.
What You Need To Do
You need to repent of every sexual sin and deviant act you have done.
You must submit your life fully to Him and start living a right life in these last days.
You need to become accountable to yourself and to Christ.
You then need to destroy all those books, videos, toys, etc that cause and help you to sin.
When you feel the urge rising up, you MUST recognize it as an attack from the enemy trying to tempt you. This is where memorizing scripture helps. I often recite Psalms 23 and have memorized it for when I am being attacked by the enemy.
1 The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.
4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.
Finally, I recommend cleansing and anointing your home in oil. If you are married, you and your husband do this together. If you are single, then you pray over your home or apartment yourself.
If you find that you have more sexual thoughts in the bedroom, anoint your bed and ask God’s blessings on it. If you find yourself doing sexual things in the bathroom, then anoint the bathroom and shower.
You can read how to do this in this article…
How The Demonic Gains Access To One’s Life & Home – What We Can Do About It
Finally, you need to dawn the armor of God and learn to use it daily. The spiritual battle wages minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day.
Some days we will be attacked, other days we will not. But no matter what, we need to be ready for the attack, recognize the attack and use our Spiritual Sword, God’s Word – The Bible to fight back these attacks.
James 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
That is how we fight and continue to fight. We must resist the devil and not give him a foothold on our lives.
If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me.
I hope that this article has helped someone out there.
The enemy has the high ground, we have got to start fighting back and pushing back the enemy.
In my next article, I will discuss the Succubus demon that attaches and attacks men.